A look inside the app we’re building
Big dreams.
Little rituals.
More of you two.
Some days, closeness is planning your future. Others, it’s a question, a kind word or a date over dinner. Discover the ways Far, Not Apart. could become part of your everyday.
01 / Couple Goals
Your next chapter,
one little step at a time.
Choose something you both want to work towards: more quality time, a new shared habit or making your next visit happen. Suggest a goal, shape it together and break it into steps that fit your real lives.
Why you’ll love itA big “one day” becomes something you can do together this week. You get to celebrate the effort, not just the finish line — with a reward you both choose.
A proposal only becomes a shared goal after both of you agree. Adjust it, pause it or stop it. No relationship scores, leaderboards or guilt for a missed day.
Our goal this month
A little more us.
2 of 3 little steps completed
- Cook the same recipe togetherDone — the pasta was a success.
- Have a no-rush Sunday callDone — just us, no multitasking.
- Choose our next visit dateNext — compare our calendars.
See an example check-in
“The cooking date made an ordinary evening feel special. Can we keep that part and give ourselves another week to plan the visit?”
- 01 · Suggest itStart with something that matters to you.
- 02 · Choose it togetherMake room for both people’s wishes.
- 03 · Take small stepsKeep the plan flexible and achievable.
- 04 · Look back with loveSave a memory of what you did together.
02 / Our Next Hello
The next hug
has a place to live.
Set a date for your next reunion and keep a little visit checklist beside it. Both of you would see the same event in your own time zone, with ideas for how to spend your time together.
Why it’s usefulGive yourselves something lovely to look forward to, while keeping the practical plans out of a scattered message thread.
You choose the date and details. No live location tracking or travel-document uploads needed.
Our next hello · an example
That first airport hug.
we’re together again
- Agree on our visit datesDone together
- Pick a place for our first breakfastStill dreaming
Something to plan. Something to look forward to.
03 / Open When…
Be there,
even when you’re asleep.
Leave a thoughtful note for a moment your partner might need it: before a big day, when they miss you or just because. Choose the message and the occasion, then let them open a little piece of your love.
Why it’s lovelyDifferent schedules don’t have to mean missing every meaningful moment. A note written with care can feel like a small hug waiting in their pocket.
A little note for your person
Open when you miss me.
Some words to keep close, until I can be there myself.
Open the example letter
“Make your favourite tea. I’ll make mine when I wake up. Different cups, same little ritual. I’m so glad it’s you.”
However far,
Always here
04 / Our Someday List
A home for every
“we should do that”.
Collect the things you want to experience together, from a kitchen dance to a dream trip. Organise them into “from here”, “next visit” and “one day”, then pick a favourite when you’re ready.
Why it’s handyGood ideas stop disappearing into old conversations. And when you finally have time together, you already have a list that feels like you.
Your bucketlist is what you want to experience. Couple Goals is what you want to work towards. An idea is not an obligation.
Our Someday List
Small joys. Big dreams.
Order each other a surprise dinner.
Find a café we can call “our place”.
Watch the northern lights together.
Three kinds of someday. All worth looking forward to.
05 / One Little Question
More than
“how was your day?”
A small daily invitation to get to know each other: something playful, a memory, a dream or a deeper conversation. Choose your pace, with a wider couple quiz to explore when you have more time.
Why it brings something newYou don’t have to invent a conversation starter every time. Discover the little stories and perspectives that don’t always come up on an ordinary call.
Planned shared answers would require an explicit choice to share with your current partner. The existing web quiz has 110 questions in 10 decks; partner-answer sharing is not live. Every question can be skipped, and the optional 18+ deck needs each adult’s separate opt-in.
Today’s little question
“Which ordinary moment would you have liked me beside you for today?”
Read another example question
“What is one little tradition you’d love us to start?”
No perfect answer. No streak to protect. Just a place to begin.
06 / Today I Need…
A little less guessing.
A little more understanding.
Sometimes you want advice. Sometimes you just want someone to listen. Share what would feel good today, with an optional note in your own words.
Why it helps in everyday lifeGive your partner a gentle starting point when tone is hard to read from a message. There’s room for closeness and for a quiet day.
Always voluntary. No pressure to explain a mood, report your availability or respond straight away.
An example of a shared check-in
Today, a listening ear.
“A long day. No fixing needed — I’d just love to hear your voice when you have time.”
An invitation to understand, not a request to be always available.
07 / Date Roulette
Same two people.
A different kind of evening.
Pick your available time, budget and mood, then discover a date idea you can do from two different places. Think shared recipes, playful challenges or a tiny adventure outside your usual routine.
Why it’s funSpend less time deciding what to do and more time enjoying each other. A video call can become a memory, even on an ordinary weeknight.
An evening to try
The five-photo date.
Each find five things around you: something cosy, something funny, something your partner would love, something with a story and something that feels like home. Share the stories on your next call.
See a second date idea
Our tiny café.
Make a drink, choose a song each and bring one question you’ve never asked. Twenty unhurried minutes, from your own favourite corners.
08 / Our Chapters
The little things
become your story.
Build a shared memory book of visits, firsts, favourite photos and moments you don’t want to forget. Add a few words about what made each memory yours.
Why you’ll come back to itRediscover how much you’ve already shared, especially when the next visit feels far away. Not just a photo folder — the story behind the picture.
Before shared media launches, we’ll explain who can access, remove or export it, including what happens if you disconnect.
A chapter from an imagined couple’s story
Our ordinary, extraordinary.
- OUR FIRST ALL-NIGHT CALL“We kept saying five more minutes.”
- OUR FIRST COOKING DATE“Different kitchens. The same terrible pancakes.”
09 / Two Yeses
Find your
“I’d love that too”.
Explore activities privately, then discover the ones you both like. From a dance lesson to a weekend without plans, a mutual match becomes a conversation you can choose to take further.
Why it’s a nice surpriseYou might have more shared wishes than you realise. Find the overlap without putting someone on the spot or revealing their private “no”.
Only mutual positive choices would be shown. Any future intimate version needs a separate 18+ opt-in from each adult. A match is never consent to an activity.
An example mutual match
Two screens. Probably very little coordination.
“Shall we give it a try on Saturday?”
A shared possibility, not a promise. Other choices stay private.
10 / Together Time
Find a moment
that belongs to both of you.
Choose times you’d like to make available and compare them in both time zones. Find an overlap, suggest a call and agree together — without sharing your whole calendar.
Why it’s practicalLess back-and-forth about which “eight o’clock” you mean. More room for sleep, work and a conversation neither person has to squeeze in.
Availability is self-chosen, not inferred from your location or online status. No automatic calendar access.
One possible overlap · summer-time example
Our Sunday catch-up.
A future planner would use the actual date, including daylight-saving changes.
11 / A Little Tradition
Make something
beautifully yours.
Choose a small ritual that feels like you: a Friday song, a Sunday thank-you or a monthly mini-date. Keep it light, choose your rhythm and pause reminders whenever life gets busy.
Why it feels specialAn ordinary day gets a familiar little moment to look forward to. It’s not about doing more — it’s about having something that belongs to you two.
Our Sunday little thank-you
One thing I loved
about us this week.
“You remembered the thing I was nervous about and asked how it went. That meant so much.”
Missed a week? You haven’t lost anything. Just pick it up when you want to.
Closer, without the pressure
A shared space.
Two independent people.
The experiences we’re designing should help you connect, not keep tabs on each other. No relationship rankings, location obligations or penalties for taking a break. Sharing should be a deliberate choice, and old private content must never become visible to a new partner.
What you can do today
Start with your own free profile.
Verify your email, set your optional preferences and invite your partner. They choose whether to accept, and you both keep your own account. A connection currently shares profile names and usernames only — not private answers, location or paid access.
The current web quiz is restricted to development, administrator testing and individually granted access. The mobile experiences shown above, shared-answer reveal and store purchases are not available yet. The final feature set, membership coverage and launch timing will be confirmed before purchase.